Greysquirrel34 Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Took my wife with me yesterday, my second day out, and at out firs stop I told her to look in one area an I would look in another, a few minutes later she found the casch and was very excited about it. On our second stop I had to give her the GPS as the terrain was hard for me to navigate, this is where I think I lost control, she searched and found the hide getting her hooked I think. When we got to our third stop, she grabbed the GPS and printed info and was on the trail before I even got out of the car.Same thing happend at the last stop. We went home and had dinner and she said we still had time to look for more, as we were ready to leave she picked up the GPS and info and away we went. What really got me was we were in a parking lot and she told me where to go and in the car had me park right in front of the hide area and found it before I got out of the car. Is she lucky or good, I don't know but I was told to print out more geocache's so we can look after dinner as this week is the only week left that it will be light after dinner. I think I have created a geocache junkie. Did pretty good for our second day, 5 for 7 mostly due to my wifes new found skills. Quote Link to comment
+burtsbodgers Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Well Thats done it you will have to get another gps, i would recommend a small one so you can keep it secret though or a paperless one, so you can get the jump on her. Oh and central locking on the car so you can lock her in Quote Link to comment
+Woodstramp Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 GS, Looks like you made a monster. (Putting on my fortune teller hat.....spooky music in the background...) "I SEE a second GPS unit coming into your life." Quote Link to comment
+FatherAndProgeny Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 I kinda like the locking the car suggestion. Maybe thats why I am still single. Quote Link to comment
+Gecko Cacher Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Been there.....done that! My geowife and I started out with the same user name so then I divorced her (only in geo terms) early when she gave me my own GPS on my birthday. After that I started caching under my username. Because of our hobbies and work schedules we sometimes would not cache together so having different names made sense. Somethimes she will cache with her girlfriends while I'm playing with the mancachers flying our RC airplanes. It also makes going for a FTF kinda fun Geck Quote Link to comment
+briansnat Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Put crazy glue in her seatbelt Quote Link to comment
hoyshnin Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Put crazy glue in her seatbelt hahahahhahhaha, i laughed really hard at this one. Quote Link to comment
+okie-wan Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Now, you two fight nice. Quote Link to comment
+jbar Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Just wait. She'll be going without you...... Quote Link to comment
Greysquirrel34 Posted October 26, 2009 Author Share Posted October 26, 2009 Just wait. She'll be going without you...... That will never happen, she doesn't do anything without me if we are both home except going to her mothers and I don't go near that house. But thats ok because she works and I'm retired and have nothing to do all day and all day to do it in, but I cant understand why I never have time to do all the nothing things I have to do all day. Quote Link to comment
+ElliPirelli Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Get your own account or let her create her own account. You'll be so upset to have caches in your account, you've never seen. I wonder, why you call it "creating a monster". Isn't it normal, that women like caching? I certainly do! Quote Link to comment
+Tatooed Lady Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 It must just be me...I don't see the problem? Quote Link to comment
GOF and Bacall Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Interesting that so many advocate separate accounts. I'd recommend that you two work out a way to cache as a functioning team. Quote Link to comment
+okie-wan Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Just wait. She'll be going without you...... That will never happen, she doesn't do anything without me if we are both home except going to her mothers and I don't go near that house. But thats ok because she works and I'm retired and have nothing to do all day and all day to do it in, but I cant understand why I never have time to do all the nothing things I have to do all day. Grey, I'm retired too. Wife:"What're doin' 'ol man?" ME:"Nuthin'." Wife:"Ya did that yesterday." Me:"Wasn't done 'yit." Quote Link to comment
+jbar Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 I don't know. I got my wife hooked and the next thing you know theres a compitition between us. She sneaking in caches while I'm working and I'm sneaking out at lunch to keep up. Quote Link to comment
+ScottKaren Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 Well as you can see from my (our) username where I an coming from. I heard about geocaching and told her about it knowing that she would like the puzzle solving aspect. We have found all of our caches together except for 2. She found those on a business trip while she was showing a friend about geocaching. Although she did call me from each cache. OK I think we are starting to sound a little bit weird now.... Quote Link to comment
+Tatooed Lady Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 I've hunted with MrTatooed (aka "Hubby"), with my son and his friend, with the neighbor girls...I'm the only common thread in all the finds. I've found a system that works...a) I don't tell him about some of the more "entertaining" caches I find without him , and I save the ones that drive him nuts for the times when we hunt together...that way he feels like he's part of the team. Quote Link to comment
Greysquirrel34 Posted October 28, 2009 Author Share Posted October 28, 2009 Well as you can see from my (our) username where I an coming from. I heard about geocaching and told her about it knowing that she would like the puzzle solving aspect. We have found all of our caches together except for 2. She found those on a business trip while she was showing a friend about geocaching. Although she did call me from each cache. OK I think we are starting to sound a little bit weird now.... I agree with you, we've been together 31yrs. and have never competed against each other we have always worked together, whether building a sailboat, remodeling our house, landscaping and even detailing our cars. So geocaching together won't cause any problems as long as we find the cache. She loves doing puzzels on any type and she love to figure out where things are hid. Quote Link to comment
Skippermark Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 My wife is a way better finder than me. She pretends to be "lost" and not able to find it so I feel better finding some of them. Quote Link to comment
+Fuzzywhip Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 Not quite my experience (I'm single), but similar. When my aunt moved to the same town I live in, I would take her and her sister (my mother) caching with me. I was the one in control of the GPSr and did most of the finding. My aunt has become more obsessed about caching over time. Now she has her own GPSr (my old eXplorist 100) and goes out caching on her own. Everytime we go caching together, she is the one with the printouts and looking to see where the next cache is. She is the one pushing for "just one more" at the end of the day. However, to even things up, her geosensing skills are not yet well formed, so I am able to hunt for caches and usually find them first. Then I back away and let her find the cache. That way we are both finders of the same cache. Works for me. Quote Link to comment
+CanUK_TeamFitz Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 My wife is a way better finder than me. She pretends to be "lost" and not able to find it so I feel better finding some of them. Same here, takes a while for me to get in the zone, Mrs Fitz usually gets our first 3. She doesn't let me sign the logs either - but I get to do all the online logging so I don't mind. Quote Link to comment
+griswell Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 It's become a competition now...don't let her outcache you! Quote Link to comment
Andronicus Posted October 31, 2009 Share Posted October 31, 2009 Here is what you do. Be nice and offer to give her your GPSr. Then the next day, go to BassPro (or where ever) and buy the best Garmin Colorado (or some other similarly priced unit). When she questions you about it, just say that you needed it. Pure Gold!! Quote Link to comment
Rocketsteve Posted October 31, 2009 Share Posted October 31, 2009 It's become a competition now...don't let her outcache you! Yeah, but based on what her husband has said, she must be some sort of "Geocache Bloodhound" with a nose that can sniff one out from over a mile away. His best bet is to lock her in the basement, take a weeks vacation to cache his brains out, and then, he might have a chance. Quote Link to comment
+rangib Posted October 31, 2009 Share Posted October 31, 2009 My wife hates geocaching. Quote Link to comment
+mahini Posted November 1, 2009 Share Posted November 1, 2009 My wife hates geocaching. My husband isn't the biggest fan either! He goes along & tolerates my new found obsession.... and he's a photographer, so he's usually more concerned with the scenery than the details! I've even tried a group outing with his best friend who does enjoy geocaching! Since I seem to be allergic to nature... and about the klutziest person EVER (who can say they got a scar while reading a book in a lawn chair?! ME!!!!) he has to go with me! (But, if someone else is willing, he won't turn down their offer to take me instead!) Quote Link to comment
+2beabout Posted November 1, 2009 Share Posted November 1, 2009 (edited) My wife is not the biggest fan, but she does seem to be good at it. I like the alone time, or time with my son when she does not go. Then again we get a lot of family time when she comes along. If you can handle it, have her drive. Then you can hop out and make the grab. Then when she OK's the new GPSr you only have to decide who uses the new one. Or get two new Colorado units, and sell the old one on e-bay. Edited November 1, 2009 by 2beabout Quote Link to comment
+Tatooed Lady Posted November 1, 2009 Share Posted November 1, 2009 I still fail to see the problem... She LOVES the new hobby, and is good at it...what are you gonna do, childproof lock her door? set up a tripwire so you can win the race? *LOL* Actually...you want to be more of a partner in your couples hunts? Find some caches that are higher T/D rated...Make her WORK for the cache, maybe it'll slow her down enough that you can reason with her (oh, I'm LOL right now!!)...let her know that you've got feelings that are being hurt by her thoughtless behavior.... Worst case scenario, she laughs at you, and you wind up "accidentally" hooking YOUR seatbelt through an article of her clothing so she struggles for 5 minutes while you stroll up and find the container! Quote Link to comment
+Sol seaker Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 You're actually very fortunate. Many people have partners that hate it and won't let them cache. My boyfriend's ex was like that. He got about 120 finds in 7 years because the most she'd let him do was a cache now and then. she had no patience or tolerance for it. It seems I'm into it more than him now. He's gotten around 500 caches in the last 8 months with me. He seems to be in competition. We pretend not to be, but I'd like to catch up with him (my landmark finds aren't as special when he's just finished them himself ie. he just completed 500 finds, and then a few months later I get 500 finds, it just doesn't have the same excitement) And he is intent on staying as far ahead of me as he can because he's been caching longer. Sigh. Beats one of us not being into caching. Quote Link to comment
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