Often couples/siblings/friends have "secret codes" based on previously established timelines/agreements about certain events. For example: Dinner at the In-Laws, two hours in and a kick under the table is the signal to leave. Wedding reception of disliked coworker, you agree to stay for the speeches and cake then leave...no signal needed.
So when it comes to Geocaching, who has an agreement with their CachingPartner regarding how long they will hunt before acknowledging a DNF?
We have had to come up with an "agreement" after our experience at GCT26W. The Cache was located within 15m of the coordinates (direction unknown). If there was snow cover we would have to dig...there was snowcover. It was -12 but sunny when we made the hike and started to dig/poke around. The moon was rising and the sun was setting...my Caching Partner could not give up the hunt- despite the dropping temp, isolated area with potential to get vehicle stuck and no cell service. We ended up leaving without finding the Cache, -14 temp and then stuck behind a broken down logging truck. (See log for pics and details).
The need for an "agreement" became evident after the first 1.5hrs (winter safety vs finding the cache)...but the "dog to the bone" could not give it up. We have since agreed that we will mutally put in a good hour of hunting, then we will continue hunting only if we both agree to continue, otherwise we 'll suck it up and log a DNF.
Anyone else have "agreements" around hunting timelines?