Been there done that. I actually have a T-shirt too. I've been in since 1999, my wife since 2001. I'm a vet of Kosovo and Iraq 2003. Jen is a vet of Iraq 2003/ OIF I and Afghanistan 2007, less than three months after she had our son. According to her profile/ or duty restriction, she wasn't even deployable yet. But they need her skill set so she went. Plus it was only a 2 month deployment (though she didn't know how long at the time), more of an open-ended TDY in a combat zone. Don't know how she did that. We're currently apart for a year, me stationed in Texas her in Washington. But we have friends who are in the desert for 15 months, so our sacrifice pales in comparison. We talk every night, I hear my son growing up, and I see her every three months. Like I said, we have it good comparatively.