So when I call my girlfriend "honey" or "baby" where others can overhear, I am being obnoxious? We don't have to be making out or making fools of ourselves to be obviously gay.
I am glad people here believe in a live and let live mantality. The truth is though, than until random people start telling you you're going to hell just because you are sitting too close to another woman for their comfort, you can't really understand. You begin to prefer being in a group where you don't have to hide. Most of my friends are straight, but if I am joining a group of strangers, I just feel safer around "family".