I exclude micros in my PQ's. I make use of the ignore list. If I don't want to find a cache, I don't. If you place a cache I like I will take the time to write you a nice log entry. If you just threw something out I'll make the same effort when writing my log.
I am fortunate to have a group of local cachers who like to make that 6 mile hike that includes climbing a mountain for a single . We get together once a month for dinner. It's not an event. There's no given. It's just getting together, talking about caches we've found (rating them as good, mediocre, or garbage), planning the next group hunt, and discuss whatever else we like.
I play the game my way. I don't care what you think.