Thank you for your thoughts. Unfortunately, I think I will have to take the road less traveled, even if looked upon poorly by other geocachers. We went (with the kids) to another site yesterday evening (once it cooled down) to find a broken pen, an alcohol wipe, and rusty green penny. Definately a dissappointment after traveling 15 miles. The site was nice, and we were doing a family activity but come on... I didn't even want to acknowledge this find.
Maybe someone should put together a section for geocaching on this site just for families with small children. I understand it's about the thrill of the chase and experiencing a new local but really? .... at least try and put even the tiniest bit of effort into what you take and leave. I will put out a cache in Westchester, NY for families within the next week that will be worthwile for all. I hope this motivates others to do the same. If you and your children enjoy the experience and it makes you smile it was worth the effort and expense. I am sorry if others feel this lessens the experience but to me and the many others who have commented here, it seems it will only strengthen the experience and bond to geocaching.
The people who do steal or make really bad trades won't read this, or they'll ignore it.
Many others will likely think poorly of you for it. Geocaching is supposed to be a fun, light activity. If people's swag habits bother you, put out caches with no room for trades.