Thanks for the feedback. Being new to the game, we have a better understanding of how things work.
FTF won't get you into heaven, but it's a nice change of pace sometimes! We're not out to always be FTF, it was just something we set out for on this occasion. Sometimes we do puzzle caches, sometimes we do all the caches in one park. I think our feelings were just a little hurt, being misled into thinking it hadn't been found yet.
I was looking for clarification on how logging a cache worked, FTF worked, beta testing a cache worked. It appears there is no "official" standpoint on this. I apologize, my original post didn't convey this clearly enough.
Thank you narcissa, that was the advice I was looking for.