it is not negativity to think that it is tacky to go down main street in clothing that advertises one's genitalia. likewise it is not negativity to think that people who speak in public of their bank balances or sexual conquests are tacky.
while i am proud of each and every one of my FTFs i consider it tacky to show them publicly and i am unimpressed by people who do.
i am always interested to see that people who do not like a thing are considered to be negative, as opposed to having a negative opinion on a thing.
to my way of thinking, there's too much mindless acceptance of tacky behaviors by the cheerful indiscriminate.
Pardon the interruption, but if you seem to have such an aversion to tackiness, what is all that drivel on your profile page?