Well...I must share with the primaries in this discussion string that, unfortunately, I have just discovered that the conflicts, frustrations, anger, and occassional rants one finds in the pressures of everyday life have also made their way into what could be a positive, fellowship-filled hobby of geocaching...or letterboxing...take your pick.
This is my first visit to this website...and it was done hoping to find enlightening information and to learn from those who have been out there...having "fun"...either by themselves, with a friend...or with their kids (like me). My wife, kids, and I stepped into the geocaching world this past weekend...and had a great time. I was able to forgot about most of life's troubles...didn't even think about the economy...or the soldiers dying in Iraq.
Reading the discussion reminded me that yes, even with something as wholesome as geocaching, human nature can create negative out of positive.
My most sincere advice is this...take the experience of caching or boxing for what it is...time to enjoy the outdoors...not relying on much more than a decent GPS, a little stamina...and fair eyesight. Enjoy the freedom...enjoy the time. Note that this advice is from someone who has only found 6 caches. I'm not a charter member...not close to being an expert...but I do know that the experience outdoors, working together with friends or family, searching for a site that is only known by the cache-owner and a couple satellites overhead...and then actually finding what you were looking for...gives you a few moments of accomplishment that is totally independent of any paycheck or employer-driven tasking.
I'm not one who devotes hour after hour to reading and responding to bulletin boards. But...for some reason...I had to take a moment after a long day at work to share my thoughts here.
As for negative histories between cachers and boxers...please...life is too short.
Find the positive...and talk positively about improving the negative...the world will be a much better place...for cachers and boxers...