i think you're taking life just a little too seriously. it's a leisure activity that people do for enjoyment. you can use any aids you want or not whatever makes a good day out for you.
i'm not being critical, i wish i could map read well enough to do without but i enjoy the hunt just as much. my daughter, only 5, can cope with gps ie follow the arrow! whatever gets you through the day.
just kick back and relax and enjoy life. there's more than enough rules already!