Well Looooong Story behind this one, Me+no lawyer+Her+high$$ lawyer = Me getting a raw deal.
That's how it works. Well, you're very fortunate to have your kids in that case. Everything else pales in comparison.
Yes I was lucky enough that I have them, and they are my world, and they are always looking forward to us geocaching EVERY weekend. What can you do, just try to take it all in stride....