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Hey, I knew my stupid poll on which abbreviation for "the other website" was going to be deleted. It was antagonistic on purpose. This thread isn't, though. It's an honest question and idea for consideration.

 

I had a thought (especially for those who wouldn't be going out of their way to get deleted)...maybe e-mail should be sent to the person you have just censored and drop them a small note describing which rule was broken so that they wouldn't be offended and would probably do better next time. It's a little kinder and gentler than the current trend of mysterious disappearances of the topics lately.

 

In fact, what *most* message boards do is to delete all responses and edit the topic-starting comment to read something like "this thread has been deleted because it broke rules AEIOU and sometimes Y".

 

Just a thought, since I'm not actually sure what part of the TOS or Forum Guidelines the "no-discussing-N" deletion binge really falls under...which still hasn't quite been outlined for me yet.

 

And no, this isn't 360...I'm in Boston, you can check my caching.

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the "stupid" thing about the poll is that people were missing the point.icon_biggrin.gif I thought that was the funniest part.icon_smile.gif

 

Great suggestions on the other stuff and I think that its a good idea to send email as long as the thread isn't deleted by mistakeicon_smile.gif Locking a thread is favored over deleting for the reasons you suggested.

 

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Originally posted by Snoogans:

Why must anyone be antagonistic to bring about reform?


 

I was antagonistic to be deleted to see if there was any message sent to the offending user. Once I didn't get a message (just deleted), I was a little disappointed that I didn't get informed what my offense was.

 

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Now answer MY question. Are YOU 360 by another name?


 

Sing along with the Beatles for me:

 

Hey Hey, wait a minute; read the post,man.

Read the post, man. Look and see.

There is a comment in my post for thee

I been waiting a long long time

Since I heard from that girl of mine

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Thanks for the constructive suggestion, phrased politely. I'll be sure to discuss it with the other forum moderators. BTW, I was not the one who deleted your forum thread. I did read it, though.

 

Could I offer a constructive suggestion? (And please, don't take offense, I am not trying to lecture or pick on you, Ju66l3r... it's meant for a wider audience.) This post was much nicer than the thread I locked. Try doing what I do... think before you post and read over your post before pressing the button. When angry, count to ten or take a break or whatever. I can't tell you how many times I've edited a post after coming back to it, or simply pressed the X button to let it disappear, never to be read in the forums. I am especially careful to do this when deciding whether moderator action is really necessary.

 

When posting under my player account, I have exceeded the boundaries of good taste, or flamed people, from time to time. It happens to all of us. But since I've started using the "think.... write.... re-read.... edit.... post" method, it happens less often.

 

Your ideas are fine and I do not wish to censor them. Please just express them constructively as you have done above. Thanks!

 

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Originally posted by Keystone Approver:

Thanks for the constructive suggestion, phrased politely. I'll be sure to discuss it with the other forum moderators. BTW, I was not the one who deleted your forum thread. I did read it, though.

 

Could I offer a constructive suggestion? (And please, don't take offense, I am not trying to lecture or pick on you, Ju66l3r... it's meant for a wider audience.) This post was much nicer than the thread I locked. Try doing what I do... think before you post and read over your post before pressing the button. When angry, count to ten or take a break or whatever. I can't tell you how many times I've edited a post after coming back to it, or simply pressed the X button to let it disappear, never to be read in the forums. I am especially careful to do this when deciding whether moderator action is really necessary.

 

When posting under my player account, I have exceeded the boundaries of good taste, or flamed people, from time to time. It happens to all of us. But since I've started using the "think.... write.... re-read.... edit.... post" method, it happens less often.

 

Your ideas are fine and I do not wish to censor them. Please just express them constructively as you have done above. Thanks!

 


 

Start on a positive, get harsh if you HAVE to, end on a positive.

 

K.A., Have you taken the same supervisory and customer service/survival courses that I have? I can't give you enough compliments today. big_smile.gif

 

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quote:
Originally posted by ju66l3r:

Hey, I knew my stupid poll on which abbreviation for "the other website" was going to be deleted. It was antagonistic on purpose. This thread isn't, though. It's an honest question and idea for consideration.

 

I had a thought (especially for those who wouldn't be going out of their way to get deleted)...maybe e-mail should be sent to the person you have just censored and drop them a small note describing which rule was broken so that they wouldn't be offended and would probably do better next time. It's a little kinder and gentler than the current trend of mysterious disappearances of the topics lately.

 

In fact, what *most* message boards do is to delete all responses and edit the topic-starting comment to read something like "this thread has been deleted because it broke rules AEIOU and sometimes Y".

 

Just a thought, since I'm not actually sure what part of the TOS or Forum Guidelines the "no-discussing-N" deletion binge really falls under...which still hasn't quite been outlined for me yet.

 

And no, this isn't 360...I'm in Boston, you can check my caching.


 

Hey, NOT so la'me...lol. This is much better, and I'm glad to see it. The other just seemed like an outright challenge to the moderators... if not intended that way, I understand, but, still, that's how it would have been taken if I were an admin.

 

Otherwise, keep up the good work this post makes obvious you are capable of.

 

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quote:
Originally posted by Snoogans:

K.A., Have you taken the same supervisory and customer service/survival courses that I have. I can't give you enough compliments today. big_smile.gif


Thanks for the good words. I am new at this and sometimes I worry I'm shouting into the wind. Nope, I haven't taken any special courses. The truth: I was a total jerk until Hydee started making me drink the spiked kool-aid.

 

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quote:
Originally posted by Keystone Approver:

quote:
Originally posted by Snoogans:

K.A., Have you taken the same supervisory and customer service/survival courses that I have. I can't give you enough compliments today. big_smile.gif


Thanks for the good words. I am new at this and sometimes I worry I'm shouting into the wind. Nope, I haven't taken any special courses. The truth: I was a total jerk until Hydee started making me drink the spiked kool-aid.

 

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Uh-oh. Someone busted out the jungle juice.

 

Brian

Team A.I.

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Originally posted by Brian - Team A.I.:

quote:
Originally posted by Keystone Approver:

quote:
Originally posted by Snoogans:

K.A., Have you taken the same supervisory and customer service/survival courses that I have. I can't give you enough compliments today. big_smile.gif


Thanks for the good words. I am new at this and sometimes I worry I'm shouting into the wind. Nope, I haven't taken any special courses. The truth: I was a total jerk until Hydee started making me drink the spiked kool-aid.

 

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smile.gif Signal says, "Drink the Kool-Aid!" smile.gif


 

Uh-oh. Someone busted out the jungle juice.

 

Brian

Team A.I.


 

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quote:
Originally posted by Keystone Approver:

I can't tell you how many times I've edited a post after coming back to it, or simply pressed the X button to let it disappear, never to be read in the forums.


 

I do that so many times a day its not even funny. As a matter of fact I was going to post something about how your spiked kool-aid post was OT but I X-ed it out. icon_wink.gificon_biggrin.gif j/k

 

Seriously if everyone thought before posting then re-read it we would be golden nad wlound't hvae os mnay sellpnig eorrrs. :)

 

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Originally posted by Snoogans:

Take a look at J66l3r & 360's entries on http://ubbx.Groundspeak.com/6/ubb.x?a=tpc&s=5726007311&f=4016058331&m=69360848&r=78060058#78060058 That is one reason that I asked my question.

 

That was less than a minute of detective work. Apologies if I'm off the mark.

 

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I don't see the connection your trying to make. However I do see something odd. 360's profile shows he has found 14 TBs but nothing else? How do you find a TB and not the cache it was in?

 

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Originally posted by umc:

El Diablo, I think he deleted all of his finds and probably not his TBs

 

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Didn't know you could do that. Or why you would want to delete your finds and not the TBs?

 

El Diablo

 

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Originally posted by Keystone Approver:

Thanks for the constructive suggestion, phrased politely. I'll be sure to discuss it with the other forum moderators. BTW, I was not the one who deleted your forum thread. I did read it, though.


 

K.A. I applaud you for volunteering for this duty... I don't think I could do it

and stay cool headed for long...

 

I would probably be breaking El Diablo's sticks over people's heads before long!

 

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Another thought on posting when in an argument, debate definition, is to write in a word processing program, proof read, spell check and grammer check. Then cut and paste into the this little box and send away. I do this because spelling is not one of my strong suits.

 

BTW, great ideas and a wonderful constructive thought process for all that have posted. It sounds like a few people have read Dale Carnige's "How to Win Friends and Influence People".

 

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He doesn't give a da**

I wish I were a moron

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