Ya know as a newb I have an interesting perspective on this. I have 5 finds and 2 DNF (although 1 of the finds was a DNF until I went back and 1 other DNF I intend to go back and find...just a little history..
I have several different hobbies...I ride a motorcycle, I play a little golf, I scuba dive, etc. and with each hobby I find the same thing... everyone is in the sport/hobby for a different thing. When I first started Scuba Diving, a buddy of mine who was a long time diver gave me a book to identify species of fish and gave me a big lecture on keeping a life list of new fishes. I never gave a crap about fish species. I wanted to get under water. I didnt care if it was a shallow or deep dive, I didn't care if I saw tons of fish or 2, but there were lots of other people that did care about those things, and the sport was diverse enough to give everyone the opportunity to get what they wanted out of it. And I just wanted to get under the water, whenever I got the chance.
Caching is the same way. There are over 300,000 caches worldwide according to the statistics. I am a newb, but I can tell you right now, I hate complicated puzzle caches. Right now it is enough of a challenge to me to find an hour (away from the kids and wife), get to the right park, use my GPS, find the right location and then try to figure out where someone hid a cache...and I get great satisfaction from finding them...and I hate my DNFs. I might like a lamppost micro, I get it that not everyone does...and some of you are big fans of those puzzle or multi caches...
Thats great..enjoy what pieces of the sport you do and let other enjoy what they do. Obviously each of us will feel "angst" when we are faced with one of the facets of the sport we don't like...good thing there are 300,000 to choose from.