Could you please explain to me just what the "numbers game" is? To me, the numbers are an important part of the "game". I use them how I see fit. I don't understand why you can't do the same, without making changes that would hide them from others' view.
I believe the answer is "Go ahead and play your game with your numbers, but not mine. I don't want my numbers in your game."
Analogy Time:
A group of runners (Group A) start going to the track at the local high school. They gather and run every day at 5:30 a.m. They enjoy running, and improving their own time but not in a competitive way. Then some others (Group B) start running at 5:30 a.m., but they compete. Group B has a starting line, and someone to clock their times down to the millisecond. Group A doesn't really care for the competition other than with themselves. But they're willing to share the track, but don't want to be in Group B's competition. Group B starts including Group A's times on their race results.
Shouldn't Group A have the option of not competing without hindering the competition of Group B?
Group A is NOT competing. Group B is just using their times.