no i mean here is the diff
gilsson website $50
$19 here + shipping
I got mine in about 2 days. They ship the same day too which was pretty nice. I wish I had been home to receive it but I was up in Norfolk working on a ship Only reason I knew to look for one for about this much was b/c someone else had posted getting one on ebay.
Oh yeah I tried the rotating of the connector to help to loosen it and that worked.....though I am sure that is not the recomended method either