I find discussions in the forums very unsatisfactory. I am not argumentative by nature but I do like to tease. I don't think it comes across very well here. I do, however, keep trying. I rarely get upset with responses, but it has happened a time or two. Also, I do not feel like anybody is really listening.
This approach seems to work best for me when I am trying to decide on an issue.
Oh, I only record a find if it is done in the conventional way. No hair splitting. I admit I don't care what anybody else does. My numbers only mean something to me. Nobody elso cares about them. I play the game for my satisfaction only and I expect everybody else does too. I like to help new players and I like to provide constructive suggestions. But sometimes the devil in me makes me do this .